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“He who learns and learns and does not practice what he knows,
Is like one who plows and ploughs and does not sow.”
Plato
The idealization of love is a resource that has been used by poets, painters and musicians for several centuries. Hence, a set of myths have been constructed that are currently circulating and to which many people pay attention, without stopping to think conscientiously about whether or not they are valid.
The difficulty lies in the fact that people can build expectations that are too high. To that extent, no reality will ever live up to what they dream and expect. That is why time and again they will be disappointed with reality and find it difficult to build genuine bonds of love with others.
We will now delve a little deeper into other sets of beliefs or myths about romanticism and love.
Love as wholeness
Love idealized by romanticism becomes the center of the personal universe. It is the sumum of good and the point towards which all paths in life lead; it represents redemption, salvation or the culmination of all longings.
It is often alluded to the idea that someone will only be happy if he or she finds and keeps a partner. It is also said that love and supposes great sacrifices and privations, in order to maintain the relationship at all costs. The whole being must be committed to the couple. There can be no secrets, no restrictions.
Reality shows us otherwise. Those absolute deliveries, where everything revolves around the couple, have more to do with neurosis than with love as such.
The human being has multiple dimensions and not all of them can be shared with our partner. There are many situations and people in life that lead us to moments of happiness, not only romantic love has that virtue.
There are also personal spheres that we consider private. They are those spaces that we like to reserve for ourselves. They are part of our process of self-knowledge, of our individual exploration, of our life. And it is not disloyal to stop sharing them with a partner. Nor is it selfishness. It is simply a mechanism to preserve our individuality.
The myth of possession over the other
It comprises a set of ideas in which the belief that couple love is a devastating totality in which there is no place for individuality is reiterated. It is stated, for example, that all true love must necessarily lead to marriage or, in any case, to a lasting cohabitation.
It is also asserted that jealousy is an absolutely legitimate passion. Some even go so far as to say that it is one of the unmistakable signs of love: if he or she loves you, he or she is jealous of you. On the other hand, infidelity is equivalent to a whole hecatomb; infidelity is a definitive proof of lack of love, an insurmountable obstacle, an offense of death.
Here again, reality shows us that things are not exactly as the romantics put it. There is no way to guarantee that true love will end in a stable union that will never break down over the years. Love is not a static feeling and every day we see marriages that go on without love, or relationships that break up even if there is great affection on both sides.
We also know that infidelity exists and that it happens even in couples who are very much in love. It does not necessarily depend on the lack of love, but many times it has more to do with insecurities or personal voids, than with failures in the relationship.
From all this, we can conclude that we would probably be much happier if we renounced to believe in those myths of romanticism. That would allow us to better appreciate reality and, perhaps then, we would stop longing for what does not exist and we could fully enjoy what we can truly expect from love.
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